How to Unf#ck yourself
You Become what you think Book By Subham Kumar Singh
1. Stop playing the victim
Life is not always a winning hand, but resisting it makes it more difficult.
Bad things happen, and sometimes it’s our fault, sometimes not. The key is taking responsibility, managing disappointment, and planning for a better future.
Don’t volunteer as a victim; choose the temporary discomfort of responsibility over a lifetime of pain and self-torture.
2. Stop blaming your circumstances
Let’s play a little mental game.
• Imagine if money is your yardstick for success. Some start rich; some start
poor.
• Circumstances? We can’t control them, but our reactions and ability to conquer challenges? Absolutely within our grasp.
Here’s the universal truth: Success crowns those fixated on the controllable, brushing off the uncontrollable.
3. Stop calling successful people lucky
Most millionaires didn’t grow up rolling in cash — 8 out of 10 hail from middle-income families. Just 2% had a silver-spoon upbringing.
Why the rush to tag-successful folks as “lucky”? It’s a defense move, shielding our egos.
But what if we acknowledged success as a symphony of effort, learning, and sheer grit?
4. Stop feeling sorry for yourself
Look around, seriously, wherever you are — your space, your realm. Everything has a role, purpose, and reason for being in the grand scheme of Earth’s theatre.
Success or failure boils down to a simple truth — the ability to keep moving.
The moment we halt, that’s when we truly fail.
The secret sauce? Keep going, keep trying.
5. Stop staying down
Life throws challenges, not as punishment, but as sparring partners, as unclimbed peaks. Embrace the sore muscles — it’s in facing these opponents that opportunity unfolds.
Just like a workout that breaks and rebuilds muscles, facing the unknown is the natural process of success.
The opponents only win if we stay down and fear failure more than we crave success.
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